how to get over your EX boyfriend..i'm just trying to help others that had a BROKEN HEART.. :DD

this are the steps that we need to do when we're trying our best to forget someone that we really, really, really love but our relationship had over. there's are 3 things we need to do; ACCEPT, LET GO AND MOVE ON. I ADMIT, it is easier said than done, right? but we have to move on with our own life. this is very challenging to me but i also trying my best to let go..so good luck to all of you friends!! :DD

THINGS YOU'LL NEED :

1. GOOD FRIENDS


2. SAFE GUYS


3. SCHOOL OR WORK HOURS


4. SELF-CONFIDENCE


5. DETERMINATION

STEP BY STEP INSTRUCTIONS

• STEP 1 - there he is, just close to you.. yet so far. Face it, you got to get over him. Surround yourself with your close, good, best friends who will support you with moving on with this guy. Or should i say, the loser who's so damn blind?? Surround yourself with a supporting family as well. Both of them will tell you repeatedly, " There are so many guys out there." Realize that, that is so damn true. He's not the only fish in the sea, you know.


• STEP 2 - go out and have fun..! Don't afraid to talk to guys. Be safe about this of course. Venture out and get to know new and old guys that you probably ignored. Don't expect, but realize that there's so many possibilities.


• STEP 3 - stop listening to sad and love songs for a while. This time, it won't inspire you. It might just break you down even more.


• STEP 4 - now its time to make a list. write down all the negative things about that guy. Yes, its wrong to only focus on negative aspect but honestly you've committed to saying ONLY positive things the entire time you liked the guy. It's time to say the negatives. FACE them. You know you want to.


• STEP 5 - if possible, have a last conversation with that guy. This is not torture. This will simply act as a closure for you. For you to finally let it go. You can choose to write a letter, email, call or in person. Whatever your choice, the important things you have to say : 1. YOUR FEELING TO HIM BEFORE, BEFORE, BEFORE. Opening up to the guy will make you feel secured and more confident about yourself. :)


• STEP 6 - realize that most of the time, the guy isn't a fault. He doesn't really mean to hurt you.


• STEP 7 - STOP HOPING and WISHING for a phone call and hear his voice. HE WON'T CALL... and you won't call either. STOP HOPING for a Facebook, Friendster and Myspace message from him. He won't do that either. Just stop.


• STEP 8 - don't force a wonderful friendship on him. It will make you fall harder. Be patient and take time to move on. When you know you're OVER him, then thats when you can have a conversations with him again.


• STEP 9 - it takes time and patience and self-control. You also need to have confidence in yourself that you are a beautiful person inside and out. You also need to believe that there is someone out there who is out there for you, also waiting.